Monday, June 01, 2015

Dear Husband


Bismillaah

Dear Husband,

I was reflecting today about death and I thought I should write this post. Since I don't know when I'll die, I thought let me leave you this letter, on this blog, so that when I'm gone, you can go back and read it.

A lot of people think that I live my life as a woman who does it all. I know this is far from the truth. Allaah has blessed me to have you be a support system that I never had before. I learned what it means to be a man, by watching and knowing you. Boy, your job is hard!!!! Having the weight of a family on your shoulders, employees and bosses to deal with and you can't really fake a sick day, because skipping out on work is like skipping out on a bill....a bill for the rent. :-p


I never saw strength, courage, and diligence, until I married you. I know I don't talk about you often....actually its pretty rare that I express my fondness for you to others....but I was inspired to leave you this post, because I know I'm dying (aren't we all) and well, just in case you out live me....here's something to remember and share with our children. You are a very special man, and where ever you go, and whatever you do, you add something of that special in whatever you do.

I didn't know happiness until I met you. My. Whole. Life. Has. Changed.

If I could pour my heart out in this post, there would be no words that would mean enough to show how much you mean to me.

I hope Allaah blesses you with good in this life and the next Aameen.

Thank you for being my best friend. Thank you for being my family. Thank you for encouraging me to do my best and making excuses for me when I'm at my worse.

May Allaah bless us to be together in Jannah as husband and wife Aameen

I remember this line of poetry that I think of when I think of you.

I changed the name of who the poet was talking about.......and replaced it with yours.

So on that note..........I leave you with this:

"Abu Abdullaah is like the sun. And the rest of men on earth are like small stars. When you are present you fade out all of the light of the stars."




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