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Women have so much going on. Some of us are raising multiple children, attending school, homeschooling, working 9 to 5s and so much more. We are moving fast and doing so much!
But you may wanna slow up just a tad and ask yourself these 10 questions:
1. Am I making my salah (prayer) correctly?
The prayer is a essential part of our life. If it's messed up then we are in big trouble! So study how to make salah ASAP.
2. Is he Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?
Getting married is super serious. Ask yourself if he's someone you truly want to spend this life and the next with. If you don't have a strong yes then you really need to rethink the situation. Marriage is a true commitment and if you aren't with the right person for the right reasons then that's a big problem.
3. What am I doing right now that is causing me unhappiness?
Figure it out and then cut it out! Its time to promote happiness in your life. So be sure to ask yourself if YOU are standing in your own way. Do you have unhealthy habits that are causing you unhappiness? Get a pen and a pad and take some time tonight to write what's making you not happy and how do you get back to being happy again.
4. What goals do you want to accomplish?
Where do you want to be in life? What are some goals you have for yourself and how do you plan on accomplishing them? As a person you should have goals set up for yourself. Having goals will give you purpose and a sense of fulfillment.
5. What are your boundaries?
Knowing what your boundaries are is important.
According to Mind Body and Green these 6 steps will help you with setting boundaries. But I'm going to share two that stood out to me.
6. Are you in the right crowd?
Do your friends remind you of good and forbid the bad? Do they motivate you to be and do your best? Are you in the right crowd?
7. How do I want to be better in my life?
Awesome question- really think about this and then start putting it into motion.
8. Where am I wrong?
Recognize that you aren't perfect. Where are you wrong at and how can you fix it? Its time to right wrongs and make amends.
9. Am I wasting my time?
Sometimes we are doing things that are taking us anywhere. Whether that's at a job we've been at for years. Friendships that are toxic or just in life in general. Time is precious and it's so important. You can't get back lost time.
10. Am I carrying baggage?
If so then why?
When are you going to let it go and why are you still carrying it? I learned from leaving a abusive relationship that I was still carrying on to my baggage and it was hard on my spouse at times because he couldn't shake my past that I kept bringing in the present. It took some time and I'm still learning and growing from it to handle my own luggage.
What are some questions you would add to this list?
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